The Transformational Power of Gratitude

Welcome to another soulful reflection, dear readers. Today, I invite you to join me on a journey of gratitude and self-discovery, as we explore the powerful ways in which we can deal with rejection and jealousy. In a world where success often seems to overshadow authenticity, it's crucial to find solace in the embrace of our own truths. So, let's dive deep into the transformative practice of gratitude and how it can ground us in the face of life's challenges.

Recently, I found myself disqualified from yet another artist residency, and the familiar voice of self-doubt crept in. "Why would they have selected me?" I pondered, feeling like a nobody. But then, a beautiful revelation unfolded within me: if I am nobody, then I must also be everybody. Inspired by the wisdom of Rumi, who writes, "I am and I am not," I realized that my worth transcends any external validation.

In moments of honesty, I discovered a profound appreciation for the quiet of anonymity. The ability to delve deep within ourselves, living our truth without the burden of performative expectations, holds a unique allure. To support this journey, I have woven gratitude into my daily ceremony. This practice grounds me in the present moment and reconnects me with the power of Spirit. For it is written, "The joy of God is my strength." Through gratitude, I no longer seek fulfillment externally, finding moments of fullness regardless of life's challenges.

This transformative power of gratitude extends beyond inner peace; it helps us find balance amidst the turbulence. Consider the time I stumbled upon a social media post celebrating someone who had wronged me. Instead of dwelling in negativity, I chose to unfollow that person, recognizing that their actions no longer define me. In that act of forgiveness, I stepped closer to liberation.

But here's the thing: I no longer feel the need to keep up with those who diminish me or to seek validation from those I thought had my back. I have abandoned the role of a loser thrust upon me by external judgments. Gratitude has helped me realize that I am more than what others perceive. In my gratitude, I embrace a sense of wonder, awe, and connection. I revel in the opulence of life's experiences. The question arises: What does winning an award truly mean for the sky? Is it just another measure of success? For whom does it hold value?

As I juxtaposed my recent failure with the success of others, I began to question the nature of public spectacle. It all seemed like vanity, a fleeting pursuit of recognition. In response, I made the perhaps drastic decision to unfollow a former acquaintance celebrating a sister's achievement. It was an act of honesty, a refusal to partake in a celebration that didn't resonate with my truth. While a part of me yearned to pretend excitement, I chose authenticity.

In this realm of spiritual gratitude, we discover the power to stay true to ourselves, even when faced with rejection and jealousy. By embracing gratitude, we transcend the need for external validation and find solace in our own journeys. Let us remember that success is a subjective concept, and the true measure of achievement lies in the impact we have on the disenfranchised and dispossessed. It is through our connection to the Earth and our fellow beings that we find fulfillment.

As I conclude this reflection, I encourage you, dear readers, to join me in the practice of gratitude. Embrace the power of being present, grounded, and centered in your own truth. Together, let us navigate rejection and jealousy with grace and appreciation. By channeling gratitude, we can transform our perspectives and bring harmony to our spiritual and stewardship journeys.

Remember, you are not alone. In the tapestry of life, we are all interconnected, and your unique light shines brightly, no matter the external accolades. Keep kindling the flame of gratitude within your heart and let it guide you through every twist and turn. May your journey be filled with love, growth, and profound connections to the Earth and its guardians.

With gratitude and blessings,

N.E. Cole